Monday, July 4, 2011

Reflection from Laura Richdale, teacher

I have recently requested reflections from people involved with the It's OK to be Different program. I am looking for responses from teachers, parents and administrators. The first is from Laura Richdale, teacher and friend.

"The It's OK to be Different program became a support that I used throughout my teaching days. Whenever a child made a negative remark aimed at a classmate or friend (present or not) I would wait to see if another nearby child would react in a positive manner. The more experience the class had had with the program, the more often I would overhear someone speak up on his/her own, to offer a solution to the conflict. If not, I would simply begin a discussion about the time they focused on understanding then accepting differences in others. I would try to jog their memories, getting them to relate what had just transpired to what they had experienced when talking about respecting personal feelings. More often than not, the children were able to connect the events and instead of the incident at hand taking on a very negative tone, everyone would see that we all need to remind each other that it is indeed okay to be different.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

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Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Freedom Riders

Most of my posts lately have related to the anti-bullying and disabilities sections for It's OK to be Different because of my current involvement with these programs this year. However, I am always interested in keeping current with issues that relate to the other two programs, Celebrating Cultures and Courage to Care. One in particular is the 50th anniversary of the historic Freedom Rides.

The Freedom Riders were Civil Rights activists who rode interstate buses into the segregated South to challenge the laws. In addition to the excellent PBS special that aired this week in honor of the anniversary, there is a childrens' book I highly recommend, Freedom Riders by Ann Bausum. It tells the story of John Lewis and Jim Zwerg, 2 young men who believed in a cause. Their idealism and courage brought them together. They were badly beaten because they sat next to one another on the bus. John was black. Jim was white.

Our children need to know about these heroes who believed in justice for all.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Ingrid and Sarah - fighting Rett Stdrome

April is Autism Awareness Month and Rett Syndrome is the most severe form of autism. It is a debilitating neurological disorder that primarily affects girls.

Ingrid Love Harding, whose beautiful daughter, Sarah, suffers from Rett syndrome, founded an organization to promote awareness and raise money for research called, Girl Power2 Cure, Inc. So impressed by the warmth and understanding Sarah received from the girls in her kindergarten class the first day of school, Ingrid realized that it would be this powerful generation of girls that would help her raise awareness and find a cure, thus Girl Power 2 Cure was begun.

I admire Ingrid's strength and tenacity as she devotes her time and energy to bring about awareness and foster positive change. She is a role model for other parents who have a child with a disability, but she is also a leader in promoting and creating programs to find a cure.

Please visit the website and learn more about Rett Syndrome and discover ways you can help as a individual or a group. We will be planting a Garden of Hope at Tower Hill School. Hopefully you can do the same. Visit:www.girlpower2cure.org

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Bully Busters

As I have said many times before, children need to learn at an early age that it's okay to let others know that they need help when confronted with a bully. They also need to learn skills to stand up to the bully and how to become active bystanders.

At Tower Hill School the children are learning this by being Bully Busters. Thanks to some of my favorite resources, Teaching Tolerance magazine from the Southern Poverty Law Center and Peter Yarrow's Don't Laugh At Me, as well as some great literature, the kids are learning some important tools to hopefully help them defuse situations they may encounter.

This week after reading the book, Bullies Never Win by Margery Ceyler, we created a "bully buster" machine. This involved 2 lines and someone had to role play the bully and go through the middle of our machine. Another student had to be the bully buster by saying something to stop the bully. It was inspiring to me to see how comfortable these young kids were with the role playing but also that they seemed to really care about defending their friends.

I will continue to post resources and the responses from the kids as we progress, but I am very excited that these young children are showing us that it is not too early to teach these necessary skills. Hopefully they will help us break this current cycle of aggressive behaviors.